Now a days, more and more people get married through online dating. But does it really works for everyone? Unfortunately, Guys get to meet Scammers who spend most of their time on Dating Sites to bait for Desperate Dirty Old Men looking for LOVE but ended up being scammed.
Im not saying all guys who join dating sites are DDOM .. Well, if u happen to browse profiles on dating sites, 80% of them are OLD .. FAT .. BALD .. in short, WESTERN LOOSERS who can't get date in their country, so they join these sites to get a NAIVE ASIAN girl.
Most western guys thinks Asians are ignorant. They think they can impress someone by giving them money, talking about how good their life is in their country, some even think they can buy love. I met lots of weird guys on the internet, some guys would offer me a job telling me to send them my scanned passport, they will process my visa, blah blah blah .. some even offered to pay me 2000 a month USD just to live with them and be their girlfriend.
I chatted hundreds of guys for the last 2 years, based from my own experience, i have met lots of DDOM .. those guys are the REAL TARGETS! Some guys i met have girlfriends, (i know coz i google them). Most are married! (shame on you!) and Most are just Bored Pervs! but of course there are really genuine guys who really are searching for true love, unfortunately because of their pure intentions, they are being taken advantage of.
Surprisingly, i have scammed young handsome guys too. I cant wait to make another blog about these guys.
WHY ARE THERE SCAMMERS?
- they dont have job.
- they're lazy ass.
- they want instant money.
I asked myself why did i become a scammer. How did it started?
Being a scammer was not my dream, i have no idea i will be one. it just happened.
Let me tell you something about myself before judging me.
Im adopted, and lets say my family weren't really treating me good. I grew up longing for love. all of them were so unfair to me. My dad punch me, my mom stabbed me using a kitchen knife, my brother doesn't respect me, only my grandma loves me like her own daughter.
I ran away from home coz i cant take it anymore. They were so violent. So what i did, i stayed at my friend's apartment, her brother-in-law is a scammer. i heard he's making a lot of money everyday. There's this internet cafe that's full of scammers. that time i have no clue how to be a scammer. So i talked to him and asked if he can teach me. but he said its bad coz they use Models and they get naked. He didn't want me to be a CAM GIRL.
Months before i ran away i already joined Dating Sites, but haven't scammed anyone. They just send me gifts like parcels, flowers, chocolates, bears, etc. but never wired money. Then i was really broke that time, I wasn't bringing any clothes. All i have is my cellphone and my wallet. i only have 800 pesos for the rest of my life. I couldn't even afford to go to internet cafe to try how to scam. I'd rather use that money for my food.
Then i went to my aunty and borrowed her laptop since they dont really use it. Im so glad she let me use it for 1 week. That time, i didn't want to be a scammer coz i thought being a scammer is all about getting naked in front of the webcam. so i took the online dating seriously, coz in my situation, the only solution i have is to find a man who will come here and marry me and take me to his country.
After 3 days of searching and chatting random western guys, I met this Canadian, 50 years old. I chatted with him and told him my story. I wasn't trying to make him pity me, I was innocent that time. He felt sorry for me, and offered to send me money WESTERN UNION in few hours, he asked my full name, address and mobile number. i thought he was just playing me, after 2 hours he sent me a message, 10 digit number, his name and address. so i asked KUYA JO, the brother-in-law of my friend what is western union? i showed him the text message, he checked the MTCN if its real. I was surprised to find out its ready to pick up by the receiver.
Im glad i have 2 valid ID's with me in my wallet, next morning i went to western union to pick up the money, i don't even know how to fill up the papers. then the cashier called my name, counted 20,000 pesos in front of me, i was like "OMG is this real? those 20k are all mine?"
on my way back to the apartment where i was staying, i was being cautious coz its a ghetto place, i was so scared to walk with 20,000 in my pocket. who know's someone followed me when i was in western union.
Then he called me, asked if i already got the money. I thanked him like thousand times. He was like an angel in disguise. then we chatted for few more hours getting to know each other, talking about whats my plan in the future. He said he will help me get up and wont let anyone step on me ever again. I really felt he's a good guy, we are both strangers, but he's so kind to me, i asked him why is he doing this, he said "ITS GOD'S WILL" . he was too religious that he believes its God who led me to him.
I will make another blog for this Canadian Guy. this guy really changed my life. for now my point here is how i became a scammer.
When i was counting the 20k in my hands i had an idea, why not do the same thing? maybe i will get more money from other guys if i do the same trick. like i said i was really innocent that time, i was just amazed how easy it was to get money. i know its bad. but in my situation, id rather do that than being a prostitute. its easy and best part of it, no matter how old and ugly the guy is, i don't mind, he cant touch me, its just online, unlike those prostitutes in Angeles City, they have no choice but to have sex with DDOM just to get money.
this is just the beginning.
